i can safely say that last summer/early fall was probably the most stressful time in scott and my marriage. we were 5 people tight in our 2 bedroom city condo (but it actually wasn’t THAT bad) and were definitely itching to get to the suburbs.
we loved our time in the city, and were able to do so many neat things as a young married couple, and then with the kids, but we both grew up with “land” and wanted that for our kids. i was ready for an easier life – as in pulling into my own garage and walking right into the kitchen with groceries, even if the 2 girls were napping in the car.
so…we started the ‘burb hunt and were COMPLETELY open to where we were to land. we looked north, we looked southwest, we looked west. we knew that we wanted to rent a house for a couple of years, and rent our condo out if we could – both to save money for another downpayment (uh, those of you that live in chicagoland know that homes dont come cheap here!!!), and to “try” out a town, get a feel for what we like, what we can afford, schools, etc.
the rental housing market was NUTS. we really were very open – not stuck on the nicest house on the block, open to layout, open to anything with 3bed, 2bath+, and fairly open to suburb. there were a few things that we did not want to compromise on –
a) had to be close to the train line for scott to travel into the city, preferably walking distance as parking at train stations here could have up to a 7 year waiting list!
b) had to have a yard! this is why we were moving! and by yard, most of you that live outside of chicago will/would laugh at what we consider a yard here, but some of the lots are seriously SO TINY it makes me want to cry/laugh
c) i really wanted a cute downtown (something that chicago is known for in each of these little burbs), and a good “feel” – not a cul-de-sac/neighborhood per se, but winding streets that fall into each other
we saw several homes, none of which were “dream homes” but we were renting! we even put offers in on a couple of them to be shot down by competing, or one in particular was GONE mere hours after it was posted for rent! Finally, in September, one came on the market in one of the “furthest” burbs that we were considering – Glen Ellyn. VERY cute downtown – check. Winding streets with character – check. Yard – CHECK! And, as a bonus, this cute house has a ton of natural 1926 character.
it’s definitely not the largest house on the block, but 4 bedrooms, a nice kitchen, great curb appeal, playroom/finished basement – it has everything that we need.
The biggest selling point for us is the fenced-in YARD. By GE standards, it is big! i don’t have a wide-angle lens to capture it, but it is a great size for playing baseball, soccer, tag, etc. ive already written about my GARDEN, which was a huge added bonus.
not only did we luck out on the house, but our street is AWESOME. great multi-generational neighbors, several kids on the street for jack and emma to play with (and they do – all day!), and AWESOME people to hang out with. we have gotten to know several of the families well and i can say that we really got more than our moneys worth in this department! we are having a blast just playing out front, then meeting with neighbors for an impromptu BBQ, and watching the kids have a blast – Jack comments DAILY how much he likes having neighbors and is definitely starting to test his independence in that regard (look forward to a future post on that topic!).
we have also met SO many great people through pre-school. everyone has been SO hospitable, kind, and really just so welcoming. as a stay-at-home-mom, it is so important to find other moms to connect with for playdates, fun times, and to ask for local advice! i feel like i have found a great group of ladies that will be life-long friends…we are having so much fun with and without kids (girls nights and scott has joined a softball team and golfs with new “guy friends!), it is seriously a blast and i go to bed every night with a smile on my face about how this has all worked out.
in short – we landed where we were meant to land. i love it here.